After the break-up - more loving with abandon

I was thrilled to see that end of 2012 few months removed. It was the end of a relationship for 11 years ago. It witnessed the beginning of my resurrection of unemployment after the economic downturn. I had some treacherous waters of economic difficulties to navigate, how in recent years had been found. If our thoughts are manifested in reality, I was new to infiltrate the stagnation that had become my daily meditation.

At the end of a relationship, you can reconsider you who they are, where are you going in life and in general throughout its existence on the planet. I was depressed, desperate and ask myself, why remove a presence have even, that the refusal of one had come, as you know my partner.

I banished, I pulled into my new job. I started to refrain from 10-12 hours a day to reflect on the past and resistant to work for the future. I have a friend was and determined that it should remain in my life and that you need to move accommodate new positive souls in my life clear. In addition to occasional wines fit on my friends couch better, I was determined to continue with my life and on the other side, strong, healthy and free of resentment.

Then I was on a day that it hit me, ready to leave the stage. I was ready to find someone that I could at least call for a dinner or a movie a chance and a new. The next concern was that he had forgotten how the new interest women know. Where could anyone go in the 1940's, meet new and interesting people who have lived may or may not be as interesting life.

Of course, it was the answer right in front of me, Internet. There are tons of websites that have been made in any pleasure. Chose a common and popular single website a notice of personal contacts in the women seeking women to place. I said to myself that I not this type of people, always an answer, crawl the site every day after new faces or respond to anyone who asked about my State, possessed. It would be a sophisticated Internet dater. Insert laugh here.

In general, the responses were that I have good and positive. I have more than 30 winks serves as a good ego boost shortly after doubts about my own value at the end of my last relationship. According to some people to meet personally and descents, I met some acquaintances, you. It was the first contact you send me a wink and then add me as a favorite on your list of potential romantic interests started. I went to your profile to see what you had written about himself, and my curiosity was aroused. Again I do not react immediately, but wink sent back. I have a couple of days before finally finding an email a little more about it. In a few days, we decided to meet in person. She had a point of local Afterhours in your city for us drinks and chat has been chosen. When I went into the operation, I knew that she was. There as something familiar that came in mind, when I saw her sitting with a smile as if it were our date night usually after together for several years. Love at first sight has never been something credible to me. I thought that your pass and unrealistic, but here was something that had never experienced in my life.

You gave me a big hug and it was nice finally knows me personally. Remember to inhale and eyes in the comfort of his embrace to close its aroma.

The rest is history, use the common cliche. We have been inseparable since then. There is a satisfaction that has been my life since I met you. I was finally ready, in a better relationship will work whatever I it takes and regardless of relationship they are adults. I wanted to repeat my mistakes of the past, on the other hand, wanted to be vulnerable and open, so someone I appreciate with all my mistakes.

Lifestyle-gay - prosperierende and remorse

The famous British writer Oscar Wilde over a century ago has been jailed for immoral conduct towards one with another man, which simply means in the jargon of today, which was sexually attracted to someone of your own sex. It may be that they have been the most famous modern homosexual celebrities. Others were of course in the old society. It is rumored that Julius Caeser and Alexander were both bisexual.

Would Mr. Wilde Treaty differently today? Of course. Would he go to jail? Just.

Why? What happened in just 150 years since his tragic suffering for what they said was innocent love between two men? Not only tolerance but acceptance for gays and lesbians led a series of factors, to practice their sexual preference in open society.

We first examined the refusal. In general, in many companies and professionals, to para admitir admit you're gay or lesbian is a movement of end to his career. Yes, even today in day. Our society is largely heterosexual and there is a tacit practice of the label and the communication, if silence about your sex life, you're not gay. Never seen or listening which admit it, but it is simply the truth. Therefore in these areas, an open, open admission that you are not heterosexual (or vice - versa, to gay, lesbian, transgender etc. etc.) is shocking and discomfort of the assumptions of truck Apple and social customs. Conduct less lifestyle.

But as I am at the beginning of the article, there are a lot of good news for gays and lesbians.

Society is generally more open to alternative Sexualities

More and more companies offer health and other benefits such as hetero and Homo-pareja

Many States in the United States and the countries of the world are same-sex marriages legally do. France was the latest in the parade of the compared countries same sex marriage to the traditional man-woman marriages.

Gay swing almost massive influence with politicians. Imagine why gay pride parades popular with established as well could be challenging? They are really proud to see women and men in Homo-sexual.

Adoptions by homosexual couples are on the rise. Adoption agencies, frown not on lack of 'traditional' partner at home.

So if you are gay or lesbian, how to handle this sudden, but somewhat slow wave of acceptance by colleagues and superiors?

I think that it is part of the large fork for the straight, that gays and lesbians are sometimes very established and loud and aggressive. It seems that they insist, wear your heart on your sleeve, so to speak. This creates resentment among even those who are moderate and the company would like to see the adaptation to alternative lifestyles.

Gays and lesbians must defend their position with the conviction rather than aggression. Enter, that the company is trying to try and push, thrust in a corner, and will lash back.